Monday, December 22, 2008

Sigh

Friends change...I know they do...
but, what if...they make you feel...like ur not wanted anymore..?? is this change..to be accepted..?shud i question..?shud i demand an explanation..? am i supposed to understand..? or am I supposed to change myself..?

clearing up stuff by talking seems to be the best solution..but what if u know..that the person in concern..is not gonna ever accept their mistake...then maybe its ur fault right..!! maybe u expected a bit too much...so like everytime we come to expectation management..hehe..I guess am gonna hav to lower that threshold...!!

P.S. Am gonna start managing my expectations..right away..!!

4 comments:

Praj ~ said...

bapre... petli...

Readable me :) said...

I feel talking it out is the best way. Its not two rocks grating when you talk it out but its just a friend telling a flaw and the other might choose to improve or stay the same according wat s/he see s as right or wrong. In the end you cannot and should not replicate yourself in others.(A lesson taught recently by a person I have started to imbibe good qualities from):)

Readable me :) said...

besides Its just a suggestion. Just like I am posting here without knowing you agree or no. But nevertheless I wish you to c this perspective too whether you choose to follow it or no ;).confused eh ?

Zaru said...

@ash...
i see this perspective..tats precisely why i concluded..tat in the end..it all boils down to expectation management..

replicating urself in others..naah..infact its the toughest to adjust with someone who is 'just like urself'..so i guess tats d last thing i wud do...

wat i expected was ... acc to me..say just a feeling of being "wanted" but..maybe it was a bit too much...to expect..

newez..dnt get me in to tat mood again...i've changed..decided not to expect...so..so be it..:)